Sexual 3 Reflection Workbook

$27.00

Enneagram Sexual 3 Workbook: A Guided Journey Into Charm, Intensity & Authentic Worth

This 50+ page workbook is designed specifically for the Enneagram Sexual 3—the subtype most focused on being desirable, admired, and emotionally impactful in one-on-one relationships.

If you often lead with charm, seek validation through connection, or struggle to feel truly seen beneath the performance, this workbook offers a supportive space to explore those patterns with depth and compassion.

Whether you’re just beginning your inner work or ready to let go of performance-driven intimacy, this workbook meets you where you are—with honesty, clarity, and gentle encouragement to show up as your whole self.

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Enneagram Sexual 3 Workbook: A Guided Journey Into Charm, Intensity & Authentic Worth

This 50+ page workbook is designed specifically for the Enneagram Sexual 3—the subtype most focused on being desirable, admired, and emotionally impactful in one-on-one relationships.

If you often lead with charm, seek validation through connection, or struggle to feel truly seen beneath the performance, this workbook offers a supportive space to explore those patterns with depth and compassion.

Whether you’re just beginning your inner work or ready to let go of performance-driven intimacy, this workbook meets you where you are—with honesty, clarity, and gentle encouragement to show up as your whole self.

BUY NOW

 

Inside, you’ll find:

  • 20+ reflection prompts tailored to the core struggles of the Sexual 3

  • Practical exercises to help you explore emotional intimacy, authenticity, and the desire to be seen and desired

  • Subtype-specific challenges that address over-performance in relationships, people-pleasing, and hiding behind charm or confidence

  • 9 affirmations—each with guided journaling—to help you reconnect with your worth beyond admiration and allow genuine vulnerability

  • A bold yet grounded structure designed to support growth without feeding the urge to perform

  • and more!

Three Ways to Use:

Fillable PDF Document on Your Computer

Digital Note-taking App like Goodnotes or Notability

Print It and Fill Out by Hand

 

FAQs

 

  • Not necessarily, but it definitely helps. This workbook is created specifically for those who identify as Social 4s, but even if you’re still exploring your subtype and resonate with themes like comparison, emotional visibility, or longing to belong, you’ll likely still find the reflections valuable. If you’re not sure, you can read the blog post “Journal Prompts. for Social 4s” to get a feel for the type of questions included.

  • Nope—this is a digital download. As soon as you complete your purchase, you’ll receive a PDF you can save to your device. You can print it out, write directly in the file using a PDF editor, or use a journal to reflect alongside it.

  • Yes! If you’re an Enneagram coach, therapist, or practitioner, you’re absolutely welcome to use this workbook in your work with clients. Once you purchase it, you’re free to use it over and over again—no need to buy a separate copy for each client. You’re also welcome to pull questions or exercises into your sessions as tools for guided reflection. All I ask is that you don’t resell or publicly distribute the workbook as-is.

  • Because this is a digital product, all sales are final. Once the file has been delivered, I’m unable to offer refunds. If you have questions before purchasing or want help deciding if this is the right fit for you, feel free to reach out—I’m happy to help you make an informed decision!

  • Not quite. This guide focuses specifically on the Social 4 subtype, and assumes a basic understanding of your core type.

    If you’re newer to the Enneagram, I recommend starting with a foundational resource or typing interview first. But if you’re ready to go deeper into your subtype’s emotional patterns, this workbook is designed to meet you there.

  • No. While you’re welcome to use this workbook with your own clients, reselling or redistributing the workbook in its original form is not permitted.

    That includes uploading it to client portals, reselling it on your own site, or using it as part of a paid course or membership without permission.

    If you love it and want to collaborate or license it for larger use, feel free to reach out!

 
 

Ready to start your next layer of inner work?

Download the Sexual 3 Workbook and begin honoring your strength without carrying it all alone.