Sexual 9 Reflection Workbook
Enneagram Sexual 9 Workbook: A Guided Journey Into Merging, Passion & Self-Abandonment
This 50+ page workbook is designed specifically for the Enneagram Sexual 9—the subtype most focused on harmony in one-on-one relationships, often merging so deeply with others that they lose touch with their own needs, priorities, and identity.
If you crave deep connection but often find yourself fading into the background or deferring to others to keep the peace, this workbook offers a supportive space to gently reconnect with your own presence and inner fire.
Whether you’re just starting your inner work or ready to reclaim your sense of self in relationships, this workbook meets you with honesty, warmth, and steady encouragement.
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Enneagram Sexual 9 Workbook: A Guided Journey Into Merging, Passion & Self-Abandonment
This 50+ page workbook is designed specifically for the Enneagram Sexual 9—the subtype most focused on harmony in one-on-one relationships, often merging so deeply with others that they lose touch with their own needs, priorities, and identity.
If you crave deep connection but often find yourself fading into the background or deferring to others to keep the peace, this workbook offers a supportive space to gently reconnect with your own presence and inner fire.
Whether you’re just starting your inner work or ready to reclaim your sense of self in relationships, this workbook meets you with honesty, warmth, and steady encouragement.
BUY NOW
Enneagram Sexual 9 Workbook: A Guided Journey Into Merging, Passion & Self-Abandonment
This 50+ page workbook is designed specifically for the Enneagram Sexual 9—the subtype most focused on harmony in one-on-one relationships, often merging so deeply with others that they lose touch with their own needs, priorities, and identity.
If you crave deep connection but often find yourself fading into the background or deferring to others to keep the peace, this workbook offers a supportive space to gently reconnect with your own presence and inner fire.
Whether you’re just starting your inner work or ready to reclaim your sense of self in relationships, this workbook meets you with honesty, warmth, and steady encouragement.
BUY NOW
Inside, you’ll find:
20+ reflection prompts tailored to the core struggles of the Sexual 9
Practical exercises to help you break patterns of merging, over-accommodation, and emotional withdrawal
Subtype-specific challenges that support self-assertion, boundary-building, and reawakening your personal passion
9 affirmations—each with a journaling prompt—to help you reconnect with your individuality, desires, and agency
A grounded, supportive structure designed to encourage growth without overwhelm
and more!
Three Ways to Use:
Fillable PDF Document on Your Computer
Digital Note-taking App like Goodnotes or Notability
Print It and Fill Out by Hand
FAQs
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Not necessarily, but it definitely helps. This workbook is created specifically for those who identify as Social 4s, but even if you’re still exploring your subtype and resonate with themes like comparison, emotional visibility, or longing to belong, you’ll likely still find the reflections valuable. If you’re not sure, you can read the blog post “Journal Prompts. for Social 4s” to get a feel for the type of questions included.
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Nope—this is a digital download. As soon as you complete your purchase, you’ll receive a PDF you can save to your device. You can print it out, write directly in the file using a PDF editor, or use a journal to reflect alongside it.
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Yes! If you’re an Enneagram coach, therapist, or practitioner, you’re absolutely welcome to use this workbook in your work with clients. Once you purchase it, you’re free to use it over and over again—no need to buy a separate copy for each client. You’re also welcome to pull questions or exercises into your sessions as tools for guided reflection. All I ask is that you don’t resell or publicly distribute the workbook as-is.
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Because this is a digital product, all sales are final. Once the file has been delivered, I’m unable to offer refunds. If you have questions before purchasing or want help deciding if this is the right fit for you, feel free to reach out—I’m happy to help you make an informed decision!
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Not quite. This guide focuses specifically on the Social 4 subtype, and assumes a basic understanding of your core type.
If you’re newer to the Enneagram, I recommend starting with a foundational resource or typing interview first. But if you’re ready to go deeper into your subtype’s emotional patterns, this workbook is designed to meet you there.
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No. While you’re welcome to use this workbook with your own clients, reselling or redistributing the workbook in its original form is not permitted.
That includes uploading it to client portals, reselling it on your own site, or using it as part of a paid course or membership without permission.
If you love it and want to collaborate or license it for larger use, feel free to reach out!
Ready to start your next layer of inner work?
Download the Sexual 9 Workbook and begin honoring your strength without carrying it all alone.