Social 9 Reflection Workbook
Enneagram Social 9 Workbook: A Guided Journey Into Belonging, Over-Adapting & Inner Numbness
This 50+ page workbook is designed specifically for the Enneagram Social 9—the subtype most likely to blend in, go along with the group, and lose touch with their own preferences in the name of peace and connection.
If you often defer to others, avoid asserting yourself, or feel like you’ve become invisible in your own life, this workbook offers a supportive space to explore those patterns with honesty and care.
Whether you’re just beginning your inner work or ready to reclaim your sense of self, this workbook meets you where you are—with warmth, clarity, and grounded encouragement.
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Enneagram Social 9 Workbook: A Guided Journey Into Belonging, Over-Adapting & Inner Numbness
This 50+ page workbook is designed specifically for the Enneagram Social 9—the subtype most likely to blend in, go along with the group, and lose touch with their own preferences in the name of peace and connection.
If you often defer to others, avoid asserting yourself, or feel like you’ve become invisible in your own life, this workbook offers a supportive space to explore those patterns with honesty and care.
Whether you’re just beginning your inner work or ready to reclaim your sense of self, this workbook meets you where you are—with warmth, clarity, and grounded encouragement.
BUY NOW
Enneagram Social 9 Workbook: A Guided Journey Into Belonging, Over-Adapting & Inner Numbness
This 50+ page workbook is designed specifically for the Enneagram Social 9—the subtype most likely to blend in, go along with the group, and lose touch with their own preferences in the name of peace and connection.
If you often defer to others, avoid asserting yourself, or feel like you’ve become invisible in your own life, this workbook offers a supportive space to explore those patterns with honesty and care.
Whether you’re just beginning your inner work or ready to reclaim your sense of self, this workbook meets you where you are—with warmth, clarity, and grounded encouragement.
BUY NOW
Inside, you’ll find:
20+ reflection prompts tailored to the core struggles of the Social 9
Practical exercises to help you reconnect with your preferences, voice, and inner sense of direction
Subtype-specific challenges that address address people-pleasing, over-merging, and losing yourself in group dynamics
9 affirmations—each with a journaling prompt—to help you honor your individuality and reclaim your place in the world
A grounded, supportive structure designed to encourage growth without overwhelm
and more!
Three Ways to Use:
Fillable PDF Document on Your Computer
Digital Note-taking App like Goodnotes or Notability
Print It and Fill Out by Hand
FAQs
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Not necessarily, but it definitely helps. This workbook is created specifically for those who identify as Social 4s, but even if you’re still exploring your subtype and resonate with themes like comparison, emotional visibility, or longing to belong, you’ll likely still find the reflections valuable. If you’re not sure, you can read the blog post “Journal Prompts. for Social 4s” to get a feel for the type of questions included.
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Nope—this is a digital download. As soon as you complete your purchase, you’ll receive a PDF you can save to your device. You can print it out, write directly in the file using a PDF editor, or use a journal to reflect alongside it.
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Yes! If you’re an Enneagram coach, therapist, or practitioner, you’re absolutely welcome to use this workbook in your work with clients. Once you purchase it, you’re free to use it over and over again—no need to buy a separate copy for each client. You’re also welcome to pull questions or exercises into your sessions as tools for guided reflection. All I ask is that you don’t resell or publicly distribute the workbook as-is.
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Because this is a digital product, all sales are final. Once the file has been delivered, I’m unable to offer refunds. If you have questions before purchasing or want help deciding if this is the right fit for you, feel free to reach out—I’m happy to help you make an informed decision!
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Not quite. This guide focuses specifically on the Social 4 subtype, and assumes a basic understanding of your core type.
If you’re newer to the Enneagram, I recommend starting with a foundational resource or typing interview first. But if you’re ready to go deeper into your subtype’s emotional patterns, this workbook is designed to meet you there.
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No. While you’re welcome to use this workbook with your own clients, reselling or redistributing the workbook in its original form is not permitted.
That includes uploading it to client portals, reselling it on your own site, or using it as part of a paid course or membership without permission.
If you love it and want to collaborate or license it for larger use, feel free to reach out!
Ready to start your next layer of inner work?
Download the Social 9 Workbook and begin honoring your strength without carrying it all alone.